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Unwanted visitor

So I thought I am already on the way and would be needing one a day womens prenatal vitamins when on the 5th night of being delayed, the UNWANTED visitor came. So disappointing but I learned to just accept the fact that it is not yet the right time. In HIS time, we will definitely have our bundle of joy. When? I don’t know. One of these days we will understand the wisdom of not being blessed with a baby yet and I am pretty sure it is for our own good. For now we will just enjoy the happiness of being a Tita and Tito to our niece and nephew, and the adoptive parents of our fur-babies whose family are growing. Just imagine having 5 dogs and 1 cat in the house, that’s a handful of mouths to feed.

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Green with envy

I thought I won’t feel this way because I never remember being envious before. If I learn that a friend is on the way, I celebrate with them and just wish I, too, would conceive soon. But if my monthly visitor arrives, I’ll console myself that it is not yet the right time. Now I just learned that one of my best buddies in HS is on the way for her second child. I find myself wishing I would be pregnant soon and would be taking those prenatal vitamins that I am asking from a MedRep friend. I can’t help it but I am green with envy and found myself asking when would be the right time for us to have a baby? Only God knows when but I hope it would be soon. I am beyond excited to buy baby stuffs, wear preggy dresses, and experience being a mom for the first time.

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On having a baby

We suddenly feel the urge to have a baby soon. I don’t know why but we feel we’re ready for it. I’ve already mentioned to Ace that we could adopt for there are a lot of babies being left at the DSWD’s care. We could adopt a baby from there but at some point we were hesitant. I have issues on how the baby was treated when he/she was still in the mother’s womb, and the issue of the biological parents’ background and blood line. Though nature (heredity) has something to do with the child’s personality, I still believe nurture (environment) will play a BIG role in developing the child’s personality.

One weekend that we were at SM, we saw an adoption help desk. Is it a sign that we need to adopt and take care of a parentless and homeless child? We were about to approach the help desk but we became hesitant. Hmmm….maybe we need more brainstorming and ample time to decide for adopting a child is no easy job. Ace’ concern about adoption made me laugh. He is amenable with it but his only concern is the baby will probably not look like any of us or won’t get any physical features from us.LOL.

Anyway, we’re trying to have a baby this time, and we will until we successfully succeed on our goal. I really hope and pray He will answer this special prayer soon or a born baby will come our way for adoption. Whichever way, we would gladly accept. But nothing could really compare the joy of having our own child…soon.

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